I have bad boundaries. When my friends are stressed, I stress for them. And then I kind of resent that they are having a bad time, because if they weren't, I could be happy! So it's all THEIR fault!
Yes, I know this is insane, and my fault, and my job to manage my bad boundaries.
I knew you had bad boundary issues, and I'm not surprised to hear that you resent when your friends have a bad time. I think lots of us do that same thing. I know I do. How dare somebody be having a bad day just to ruin our day! People are so impertinent! ;)
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Date: 2009-02-24 06:45 pm (UTC)Yes, I know this is insane, and my fault, and my job to manage my bad boundaries.
I bet you knew that about me anyway, right? ;-P
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Date: 2009-02-25 09:01 am (UTC)