My only problem with this idea is that other people are not as ethical as you. And would be far too tempted to post 'drive-by' flames. Where someone says something completely offensive and disrespectful and then insists it's their journal so no one has the right to create a flame war in it. And, many women are guilty of this. (Since I agree with you that men tend to be the most aggressive and bullying of arguers.) Again, this is not something I'd worry about with you. And I think from respectful decent people, your attitude of gentleness reads well and invokes a level of politeness and restraint that spares you the drama. That said, you can always turn off people's ability to comment if you don't want to allow debate about something. *smooches*
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Date: 2005-07-27 07:32 pm (UTC)K.