My dad does this--less than he used to, but he still does.

But far worse was a particular ex-boyfriend of mine. Before I started dating him I was very politically active in progressive causes. Not long after we started dating, I dropped every single one of them.

He always always always held my views to a much stricter proof than his own. He would also nitpick something relatively tiny, which meant he didn't have to argue the main point. Red herring, anyone?

I broke up with him almost three years ago. Thank GODS.